The partner in late-life repartnering: Caregiving expectations from an intergenerational perspective

מאת: Koren C., Simhi S., Lipman-Schiby S., Fogel S.
פורסם ב: International Psychogeriatrics
תיאור: Background: Late-life repartnering among functionally independent adults, resulting in complex stepfamilies, has emergedwith increased life expectancy, and is likely to develop further. It is perceived as a chance for renewal and autonomy, enabling a release from dependency on offspring, whereas caregiving is associated with dependency and becoming a burden on family members. Thus, the experiences of late-life repartnering and caregiving are opposites. Using a life course perspective, we explore partner caregiving expectations in late-life repartnering from the viewpoints of three generations in complex stepfamilies in Israel, a society characterized by collectivist alongside individualist familial norms. Methods: Using criterion sampling, we recruited 19 stepfamily units (38 families) of functionally independent persons who repartnered at the official retirement age or older and had offspring from a lifelong marriage that ended in widowhood or divorce. One-hundred-seven semi-structured qualitative interviews with older partners, their adult children, and grandchildren were audio-recorded and transcribed verbatim. Analysis was based on grounded theory principles and dyadic analysis adapted to families. Results: Two themes emerged: caregiving commitment and decision making. Issues included: influences of partner-caregiving history; chronic versus temporary caregiving situations; caregiving strengthening partner relationships and influencing stepfamily relationships, and moral dilemmas, such as what happens when fun – a motive for repartnering – is no longer possible. Could abandonment become an option? Conclusions: From a life course perspective, caregiving, as on-time, and late-life repartnering, as off-time, highlight the lack of norms and the need to establish normative behavior for caregiving in late-life repartnering in diverse cultural contexts along with its reservations. © International Psychogeriatric Association 2016.
SDGs : SDG 03  |  יחידות: מדעי הרווחה והבריאות  | מועד: 2016 |  קישור